This hit harder than I thought it would.
I’ve been re-watching my favourite childhood movies lately. Especially the Disney ones. It’s amazing the life lessons they have in them.
My Role Models
I know it’s important to be the best “you” you can be… …but sometimes I just wish I was as beautiful and awesome as these amazing women! (≧◡≦) ♡ They’re like the THE BEST ARTISTS EVER! And Chloe herself can rock any outfit she’s given! She is a cosplay and lolita goddess! Some day, I hope I can be someone’s role model too. I definitely have to do a part 2 to this post in the future. I only now realised it would have been much better if I went into detail on why I look up to these persons. ^_^
You’re a woman. A guy finds you attractive, dates you but then finds out you’re transgender. He doesn’t want to date you anymore. Is he being transphobic or not?
Even as a trans person myself, I personally don’t think there’s a definite right answer to that question since I’m seeing both sides to it. On one hand, a straight guy may like the fact that the person they’re dating has female genitalia. It’s understandable since that’s what a straight guy would be attracted to. However, if that guy no longer wants to date that person because they’re transgender after they had found them attractive, that means they’re clearly just interested in what is between the person’s legs and not for who they are as a person. And then there’s the fact that I do believe that trans persons should be transparent with their dates. I mean, don’t outright say you have a dick or something, but wait until the safest time to disclose that part of you. Personally, I would say to the person I’m trans…