A Day For Beth #4: How To Talk To Girls
Not sure if this counts as a A Day For Beth comic, but I’m going to cheat and say that it is just to meet my schedule for this week lol
You’re a woman. A guy finds you attractive, dates you but then finds out you’re transgender. He doesn’t want to date you anymore. Is he being transphobic or not?
Even as a trans person myself, I personally don’t think there’s a definite right answer to that question since I’m seeing both sides to it. On one hand, a straight guy may like the fact that the person they’re dating has female genitalia. It’s understandable since that’s what a straight guy would be attracted to. However, if that guy no longer wants to date that person because they’re transgender after they had found them attractive, that means they’re clearly just interested in what is between the person’s legs and not for who they are as a person. And then there’s the fact that I do believe that trans persons should be transparent with their dates. I mean, don’t outright say you have a dick or something, but wait until the safest time to disclose that part of you. Personally, I would say to the person I’m trans…